With the appearance of Axia Women on the US Orthodox
scene, it’s a good moment to consider the distinctive ways our Lord
interacted with the women he encountered in his ministry.
He treated
them in ways that often surprised and confused his contemporaries, He
scandalized society by associating with women of loose morals and
defending an adulterous woman. He recognized and redirected the strength
of their passions towards love for God (think of the woman he praises
for having “loved much”). Instead of bowing to cultural expectations, he
declined invitations by the men around him to judge those women--and
redirected the men’s judgment onto themselves.
Christ’s mother had “heard the word of God and kept it” and “pondered
these things in her heart.” She schooled him in his theology. Perhaps
from her, he received a clearer understanding than his contemporaries of
the value of women’s ministries. He performed his first public miracle
at her bidding at the marriage in Cana, though it’s clear from their
exchange that it wouldn’t have been the first marvelous work she
witnessed. He accepted the sponsorship of women followers, who
underwrote his and his disciples’ travels and activities. He openly
declared that their desire to learn about God and the faith was
appropriate. (Later, in a similar vein, St Paul names nine women among
the leaders of the church in Rome [Rom 16: 3-15.])
Christ not only listened to women but also engaged in conversation
with them. His longest recorded dialogue was held with the Samaritan
woman—an unrepentant sinner and member of a heretical sect. If theirs
had been a usual encounter, she should have fallen at his feet to beg
forgiveness for her transgressions. Instead, she challenges him to a
theological discussion; he meets her where she is. Female, sinner, and
heretic though she was, she was the only person to whom he declared, “I
am the Messiah.” She was later baptized Photeini and became one of the
great early saints.
Christ held women up as exemplars of faith. He allowed
himself to be bested in argument only once. When he tried to refuse a
request from the Syro-Phoenician woman and she retorted, “Even the dogs
feed on the crumbs which fall from their masters’ table” [Matt 15:
21=28]), he held her up as a paradigm of intense belief. He drove home
other lessons by using women as illustrations. When he wanted to talk
about the need for persistence in faith, he told a parable about a widow
dunning a judge for justice (Luke 18: 1-8). When the sinful woman
anoints his feet with oil and wipes them with her hair, he contrasts her
repentance and gratitude to the attitudes of the men around the table.
May we all—women and men, laity and clergy alike—strive to be like
Christ. This means many things. Believing women. Meeting with them.
Engaging them in dialogue. Trusting them. Learning from them. Bringing
them along to a higher level of understanding. Recognizing the depth of
their faith and persistence. Providing for their needs. Plus, as Axia
Women is here to remind us: accepting their ministries as blessings to
our individual selves and our Holy Mother Church.
Metropolitan Savas of PIttsburgh